It seems I've somehow mistakenly fallen into the fountain of youth - or at least look like I did.
Today I was interacting with my patient and her mother, who was floored to hear that I have four children ranging in age from 8-18. She said she thought I was 21 or 22 at most... WHAT???
This is not a one time occurrence, either.... Just a couple weeks ago, someone had the same reaction and then guessed my age as 10 years younger than I am.
I suppose one day I will be thankful for my "youthful appearance" but right now it is simply annoying.... I mean, I am supposed to be a professional nurse with wisdom and experience to help people with..... I get so frustrated when people continually take me for a green, twenty-something fresh out of college...... I guess it is showing my own insecurities and buying into the pre-conceived ideas that women with wisdom are gray-haired and wrinkled.... But, I honestly would rather have the gray hair and wrinkles.... bring it on....
But, no gray yet....and only a couple little crow's feet...... phoo-ey.
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I get the same thing all the time. My best confidence booster for both my patients and myself is looking professional. Patients, especially older ones, have often told me how reassuring it is to have a nurse dressed in white. I've also been ranging toward more professional looking shoes and tailored scrubs. Every little bit helps.
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